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Friday, June 27, 2008
Collectivist Cultures
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Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Groupthink.
Here are three reasons why cults such as the KKK are the perfect example of Groupthink.
1. Illusion of Invulnerability. A majority of people consider, or even join cults for one main reason, and that is to have a sense of belonging; to feel safe and accepted in the group. Because the members are so desperate to belong and be a part of the cult, it an unstoppable force, and nothing can get in it's way. Group members are dillusioned into thinking that whatever they do is right, and they have faith in the group, never doubting or faltering in their beliefs of the group's supremacy.
2. Belief in Inherent Morality. Cult members never doubt what their leaders tell them. They completely trust and believe whatever their cult leader says. They think that everything their leaders to or say is correct, so in trusting them, everything they themselves do is moral and just. They believe strongly that they know what is wrong or right, and never doubt their thoughts or actions.
3. Collective Rationalization. The entire cult worships the leader, and thus will follow exactly what their leader said, never doubting his words or actions. This will in turn lead to the belief that their leaders are always right. Everything they do, the group will try to explain and rationalise their actions as a group, so whatever is thought to be incorrect or wrong will be dismissed, as the group refuses to see things from different perspectives.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Communication Platforms
Saturday, June 7, 2008
Interpersonal Communication
But with increasing exposure to the world wide web, comes the creation of global socialising networks that enable people from all parts of the globe to connect to each other. People who have never met each other in real life can claim to be in love, be best friends or even sworn enemies. This 'connection' we forge with virtual strangers, can it really be considered true friendship?
Hiding behind a computer screen, anyone can claim to be someone they are not. And sometimes, this deception is taken too far.
This is 13 year old Megan Meier. Megan that commited suicide after getting depressed over a MySpace hoax. She got to know a 16 year old teen called Josh Evans over MySpace, and over the course of their chatting and correspondence, their relationship bloomed. However, things took a very different turn when Josh suddenly changed his attitude towards Megan.
On October 15, 2006, Josh sent Megan a message saying, 'I don't want to be friends with you anymore because you're not nice to your friends'.
That post triggered hate posts from many other MySpace users.
"All of Josh's friends and all of Megan's friends were calling Megan a whore, a fat ass. Calling her all kinds of god awful names," Megan's mother,Tina, told the ABC network in an interview last year.
Meier hanged herself on October 16, 2006 after receiving the cruel messages, including the last message sent from Josh which read: "The world would be a better place without you."
However, the tragedy took an even worse turn when it was revealed that this Josh Evans did not even exist. Lori Drew, a 48 year old mother was passing herself off as a 16 year old guy, just to monitor anything negative that Megan was saying about her daugther.
The childishness and insensitivity of her actions led to the tragic suicide of a young girl. Her actions and intentions were extremely cruel, even more so because she knew the Meier family personally, and Megan and her daughter were friends. How can anyone (especially an adult, a MOTHER, for that matter) stoop to such levels to bully and harm a young teenage girl? (FYI, the authorities were unable to charge Lori Drew for Megan's death as they could not find a law she had broken. Instead, all the woman got for her deliberate and evil actions were one count of conspiracy and three counts of accessing protected computers without authorisation to obtain information to inflict emotional distress. Each of the counts carries only a maximum possible penalty of five years in prison.)
This is why I feel interpersonal communication is only valid and real if it's truly a face to face interaction between 2 people. Your virtual 'friends' can make themselves out to whoever they want to be to you, but you'll never really know who's the real person hiding behind a computer screen.